I'm not sure if I come across as an arrogant or a self defensive person but I feel sometimes that it is like catch 22 situation ... I read this on Twitter - What the victim calls luck, the virtuoso calls practice (I want that on my tombstone please ;)-Robin Sharma. so much of this is true... We are always stuck in catering to our ego but often forget the essence of value and the relationship. Why is it always said? "This is not the age of selfless people, modest people... oh values what is that? I think it is just not saying it but people are living with this thought process. The amusing fact is, these kinds of people strongly believe they can fool others all the time...while others who are victims are only ignoring this fact as they value relationship.
To be or not to be.. In Hamlet it so well described about the state of confusion.. Not going into further details..On this phrase i guess often we get into this state and we do not think practically.. The end result is all the emotional turmoil we go through...
Well I have had enough experience to now realize that one must not to give more than what one deserves- it is not required to compromise with value system anyhow.
The point I'm trying to drive is... To forgive is not weak but the sign of a being great! At the same time.. Ignoring the fact that others do not deserve it is actually being stupid! My two cents.. There will be more on this... in future upgrades.. May be with time I would look at the whole thing with a different perspective.